Unkind Spirits, how to deal with spirits that are not pleasant
Within this blog, I will explain all about what I do when it comes to unkind spirits. At times during my work, I connect with energies linked to the spirit world who, in life, were not kind to others. Overall, I hope you enjoy reading my blog and that it helps you to better understand these experiences.
What Are Unkind Spirits?
Throughout my work, I deal with thousands of people. In short, I work with those who have lost loved ones who were close to them and deeply caring. On the other hand, I also work with people who, during their lifetime, were not particularly nice individuals.
I choose to use the term unkind spirits for a reason. We do not always get along with everyone in life, and sometimes there is a very good reason for that. Undoubtedly, there are people we encounter who are deliberately hurtful or unpleasant.
Overall, the inevitable will happen, and everyone will pass away. Whether or not these people were related to you, they can still make themselves known during a reading. Understandably, this is not always someone you wish to connect with.
Why Do Unkind Spirits Come Through?
Importantly, there are many different reasons why unkind spirits choose to come through. Depending on how long they have been in the spirit world, they may have had a great deal of time to reflect on their life and actions.
More often than not, they connect in order to apologise to those they have wronged. Quite often during my work, I sense a release of emotional weight from them. Even though they are now on the other side.
Understandably, clients can be quite shocked when this happens. Nevertheless, I believe it is important for clients to understand that they are worthy of receiving an apology.
However, apologising about it does not always get accepted. Undoubtedly, this is completely understandable due to the extent of the damage that may have been caused.
Can Unkind Spirits Change for the Better?
Just like all of us, we evolve and change throughout our life patterns. The same applies to unkind spirits. Quite often, they did not fully realise the impact of their behaviour on others. On the contrary, there are also times when they were aware but did not care.
Another thing I have noticed is that unkind spirits are sometimes made to come forward by other spirits. Often, these are loved ones who were kind and supportive in life and who gently push them to acknowledge the pain they caused. Altogether, I believe this process can be important for both sides.
Going back to whether unkind spirits can change for the better, the answer is yes. Before fully entering the spirit world, we pass through a place of reflection. This is where we are able to look over the life we lived and the effect we had on others.
Admittedly, this process can take many years. Nevertheless, change is possible, even if their apology is not accepted or their attempt to make amends is not welcomed.
Do I Ever Judge them?
Judgement is not my place. Even if I strongly dislike the actions of unkind spirits or the pain they caused others. Moreover, it is not for me to decide their worth.
Every time I connect with spirit, I allow them into my energy with respect while maintaining firm boundaries. Altogether, even if I do not feel entirely comfortable working with them, I do not judge them. As a rule, my boundaries are vital, and there is always a reason why they choose to connect, which I take seriously.
With this in mind, spirits are not very different from people in the physical world. There are individuals we love, those we like, and those we struggle to tolerate. The same applies on the other side.
At the end of the day, it is important to consider what is right and what is wrong. In many cases, unkind spirits experienced difficult and damaging lives themselves, which may have influenced who they became.
Why Do Unkind Spirits Bring Forward Negative Feelings?
In order for spirits to communicate clearly and confirm their identity, they need to share detailed information. This often includes personality traits, behaviours, memories, and emotional patterns.
Overall, this information helps demonstrate who they were during their earthly life. In doing so, some difficult or unpleasant characteristics may surface. Nevertheless, this does not necessarily mean they remain the same.
Even so, these aspects are often shown to help the connection feel clearer and more recognisable. Undoubtedly, people can change dramatically during life, and the same potential for growth exists after passing.
To conclude this point, unkind spirits may present themselves in this way to validate who they are. Even if the emotions involved feel uncomfortable.
What if they don’t change?
Admittedly, there are cases where unkind spirits show little remorse or humility. This can be challenging, however, it is important to remember that there is no time in spirit as we understand it.
Reflecting on one’s life and actions can take what would feel like hundreds of years in the physical world. On the other hand, for them, this experience does not feel as prolonged due to a much faster vibration.
At the end of the day, change is a personal choice. Even with guidance and support, some take longer to come to terms with their actions and accept responsibility for them.
Summary
Overall, this work is always guided by boundaries, respect, and intention. Whether unkind spirits seek understanding, reflection, or acknowledgement, the focus remains on clarity, awareness, and the well-being of those receiving the message.
Thank you for reading my blog
Steve