When will your loved ones in the spirit world be ready to make contact?

Psychic medium with orbs from the spirit world
Psychic medium with orbs from the spirit world

Why can it take such a long time for your loved ones to come through? 

I recently gave a mediumship reading to a client. She often has readings with various mediums to connect with her loved ones. During the reading, I brought through an old friend of hers. Who happened to have passed away in 2002. Within 22 years she never made any contact with any previous mediums.

My client was slightly shocked but overjoyed that she managed to make a connection with me. Towards the end of the reading I asked her if she had any questions to which she replied “Why did it take her so long to come through to me?” This is one question I have been asked on many different occasions and I continue to get asked. However, it is one that I don’t always have the answer to however I have my own theories. 

I get questions such as; 

– are they ok?

– are they angry with me? 

– are they lost? 

– are they scared? 

– why don’t they want to talk to me?

– do they still love me?

100% I can promise all of you that your loved ones are absolutely fine. Working on themselves in the spirit world, everyone is given the help and support that they need. There is no pain or suffering and nothing to worry about, there is nothing to be scared of. Our love never dies as it is eternal as much as our soul is eternal. 

During the readings that I give my clients I prove to them that this is the case. I am able to see the lives and struggles that some of the spirit people have had in life. Such as alcohol or drug issues and how much they continue to grow in the spirit world with so much help.

Loved ones in the spirit world
Loved ones in the spirit world

What is the reason why you don’t always hear from who you want to hear from? 

Spirit always come through for a reason. There is never any guarantee that you will hear from the loved ones that you really hope will come through. Sometimes they are not ready yet and need time to come to terms with the life that they lived in the physical world (the world we live in). Also, they may be trying to learn how to connect through a medium.

Quite often when they have recently passed other family members in the spirit world with them will help them connect with a medium. They will usually come through to start with and then be followed by the more recent spirit who passed. Furthermore I’ve noticed that it can take up to a year sometimes for them to come through so please be patient.

Can every medium work with my loved ones?

My belief is that not every spirit and medium is always able to work with one another. What I mean by that is that we are all energy and not everything including energy works well together. Not at all do mean that the spirit and medium don’t like each other. However, what I mean is that even in the physical world we have many different personalities and interests and don’t always understand or connect very well with one another. 

A lot of what mediumship is about is life experience and what the medium has seen and been through in life. Spirit communicates with a medium through thoughts and feelings such as memories that the medium themself have lived through.

For example, I experienced a bad vehicle accident in 2012. As a result of this I’m lucky to be still able to walk and even be alive. When I am working and get a spirit communicating who passed in a vehicle accident then my own experience of being in an accident will be playing in my mind. If the medium has not had those experiences that the spirit did then they may not be able to work well together. 

For myself, I do experience a lot of younger spirit communicating with me. I’m not sure if that’s because I’m younger in years or if it’s because I’m able to connect very well with younger spirit that I’ve had difficult lives. Throughout my career, I have experienced a lot of suicides and fatal passing of younger people.

Beautiful green Valley with wildflowers in a spiritual place
Beautiful Green Valley with wildflowers in a spiritual place

What to do if I don’t hear from my loved one who I so desperately wanted to hear from? 

Always go into a reading with an open mind. And with the hope that you will be connected with your loved ones. Never feel pressured to go for a reading as it is a very personal matter and one that you should only do if you feel that the time is right. When I am working with my clients, I always make sure that I tell them before the reading takes place. I can’t always connect with the loved ones that they hope I can.

Mediums can’t pick or choose the spirit. One term that I hear many times and one that I use is I don’t connect with the spirit they connect with me. There is always a reason that a particular spirit will choose to communicate. It’s my job to find out who they are, why they are connecting with me, and very vital and personal details about them. 

After the reading you did not feel you made contact with who you really wanted to then don’t feel bad about it. They will eventually come through when the is right for them. Also, when you find the right medium for both you and your loved ones in the spirit world. More than likely that is when the communication will certainly happen. When the time is right then that’s when it will happen and it should be an amazing and for sure emotional experience. 
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Details during a reading

Mediumship must always be very matter-of-fact. Full of personal information about the spirit communicator who has passed. It’s very important that the medium should give plenty of information. Myself I always make sure that I give all of these vital details; 

– names 

– how the spirit passed

– personality traits 

– strong memories 

– how they are connected to you

– interests and hobbies that they had

These are to name a few vital things in mediumship and spirit connection. A medium can never get 100% accuracy in a reading but as long as most of the information makes sense that’s the most important thing. Mediumship is all about information of the spirit who is communicating. When I am working as a psychic medium and giving the readings this is my job to give all of that to the client. 

What I really want to explain in this blog is that when the time is right for the spirit to communicate then they will do so. Do not believe that they are doing it deliberately and don’t want to communicate there can be a number of factors as to why they cannot. Do not give up on them as they will not give up on you. 

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