Worrying about your loved ones in the spirit world

In this blog, I will uncover everything our loved ones experience when they enter the spirit world. I will share my knowledge and experience as a psychic medium to explain how they receive treatment and the help available to them.
There is nothing to fear for your loved ones or even when it is your time to cross into the spirit world. Please read this blog and I hope at the end of it you will feel much better if that’s what you fear and get some spiritual guidance.
What happens soon after passing into the spirit world?
One question that I often hear is, “Are my loved ones okay in the spirit world?” This is often followed by questions such as:
– Are they angry?
– Are they in pain?
– Do they still love me?
– Do they forgive me?
– Are they sorry?
When we pass into the spirit world, we first enter a place called reflection. This space allows us to come to terms with the lives we’ve lived and the experiences we’ve had. For instance, if we have experienced a very difficult life filled with pain and trauma, we receive much more help. I can promise you that nobody is left out.
Importantly, entering reflection also gives us the chance to come to terms with the fact that we are in the spirit world. Nobody changes immediately upon entering reflection; it depends on how much help each person needs before they pass into the full spirit world. We can still communicate with our loved ones through a psychic medium while in reflection.

What is reflection like?
In many ways, reflection resembles the spirit world. However, the main difference is that reflection feels much more like a counseling session. As I mentioned before, we receive as much help as we need. Those who have lived happy lives may not need to stay in reflection for as long. In contrast, someone who has sadly taken their own life will receive much more support and love.
There is no time in the spirit world and as I like to say time is a man-made thing. The spirit world works on a much faster vibration as does reflection. Thus there is no need to rush your time there. Above all, you can get the help you need and come to terms with everything.
From what I have seen of reflection from communicating with the spirit world, it is a very peaceful and loving place. Whoever you are, whatever you have done, there is no suffering or torment. Being filled with mindfulness and empathy from the other spirits that are there. And also your spirit guides who play a massive role.
Things also start to become much clearer when you’re in reflection as to who you are as a spiritual being. Becoming much more connected to your soul and its true purpose.
When will you go into the spirit world?
Unquestionably, when the time is right, some people need more time in reflection before they cross into the spirit world. I do not believe for a moment that anyone is being held there against their will; if you are not ready to move on, you simply will not.
Adjusting to the spirit world is an emotional and sensitive time for us when we cross over. Typically people who have faith in the spirit world and spiritualism tend to cross into the spirit world quicker however not always. We are all very different and we may have more questions to be answered.
Our loved ones are still able to be with us in reflection when we are there. They are also able to help us with our needs.

Do our loved ones in the spirit world miss us?
Being in the spirit world, we are still very close to our loved ones in the physical world. We are all living in a multidimensional environment, the physical world and the spirit world. Even though we no longer have a physical form in the spirit world, we are still very close to our loved ones.
Therefore, missing us in the physical world is not really something they experience. Because they walk with us daily and are aware of what we are doing. Spirit mindset is very different from ours and they do value our privacy even though they are with us daily.
Just the same as we are on a spiritual journey in the physical world they are the same in the spirit world. One of my biggest theories is that they are also learning from us in the physical world by watching us. Physical life and spiritual life is an ongoing lesson. Growing our souls, spiritual awakening and unconditional love.
How long until we reincarnate back to the physical world?
Reincarnation varies from spirit to spirit. It does take some time in the spirit world to come back into the physical world and have another experience in earthly life.
Moreover, there is no time in the spirit world. Their energy is on a much faster vibration I would liken it to Narnia. Such as when you go in through the wardrobe into Narnia time there is a much longer process. 49 earth years equals 1 year in Narnia. To the best of my description, that is what I would describe it as.
Undoubtedly, I would say that the lives we live when we come in and out due to reincarnation vary. Privileged lives to very poor and destitute lives are all vital for our soul’s growth. Even if we come in for a few years to a few days before we pass back to the spirit world. All of this must count for ourselves and our fellow souls that we reincarnate with.

When should you seek guidance from a psychic medium when your loved one has passed?
Always when you feel the time is right. Certainly do not rush or feel the need to go to a psychic medium unless you feel the time is right for you. There is also no guarantee that you will hear from your specific loved ones straight away. They may not be ready to come through yet. It’s probably best to wait around about a year before you seek guidance from Mediumship for spirit communication.
For that reason, I would suggest around about a year after somebody has passed. However, they can come through the next day after passing but it varies. Psychic mediums cannot choose specific spirits to come through the spirit chooses the medium.
Don’t forget that when we pass to the spirit world, we need to adjust to that new environment. We come to terms with the life we’ve just lived. In other words, it’s a bit like moving house; we get settled in somewhere new before we can get our heads in the right place and start talking to others.
Summary
To summarize, your loved ones are absolutely fine on the other side. If you feel very bereaved, seek counseling or talk to someone. Don’t suffer alone or feel guilty for not being there at the end or for any bad things that were said.
At the end of the day, we are all going to end up in the spirit world. Our problems get resolved and there is help there for everybody.
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